Instead of just sticking it up there verbatim, it'd probably be best to go over it and revise it a bit. Not that I doubt CDFA's advice, but I think it'd be best to make sure we're covering everything.
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To add onto what citremi said, it is possible to get a sense of emotion through writing like
this fucking dipshit shit word of fucking writing or
it's not like this writing is meant to trick your emotions or anything lol or
I'm not sure, but if this writing is expressing emotion, nvm or
I don't care what this makes you feel like just but you do you or
etc and so on
but it's not possible to get a real sense of the person's emotions writing those without seeing them face-to-face, like citremi said
It's easier to act online than in real life, and most of it is act for joking. Most, however.
this fucking dipshit shit word of fucking writing or
it's not like this writing is meant to trick your emotions or anything lol or
I'm not sure, but if this writing is expressing emotion, nvm or
I don't care what this makes you feel like just but you do you or
etc and so on
but it's not possible to get a real sense of the person's emotions writing those without seeing them face-to-face, like citremi said
It's easier to act online than in real life, and most of it is act for joking. Most, however.
you need add emotes (ﾉ´ヮ´)ﾉ: ･ﾟcitremi wrote: 70gm
because when you talk over text like this, there's no emotion other than the words themselves, which might not even convey any kind of emotion either
face-to-face, you can tell from the look on their face maybe, but online there's no face to look at
it's almost robotic
abraker wrote: 6w3t1z
Going off what CDFA said, Eph I suggest you still allow dark humor in here but have a pinned thread on top basically saying you don't mind the shit, but also, since OT likes dark humor cake with a cherry on top, have the stuff CDFA said about seeking for help in case the person is actually in trouble.
Can we come up with the actual points to post or are should I go back to circlejerking with CDFA?citremi wrote: 70gm
Instead of just sticking it up there verbatim, it'd probably be best to go over it and revise it a bit. Not that I doubt CDFA's advice, but I think it'd be best to make sure we're covering everything.
To be honest, everything that needs to be addressed has been posted well by each of you, especially on the second page.
(that and I don't have much to say regarding momi's disapproval of using professional therapist)
so it'd be better to just... lock? It's an announcement, after all. I don't see much of progression other than stating what has been stated.
One thing, anyway, that I'm open to listening if in any case someone just needs a pair of ears for it. I'd be glad that as a community we agree that we're ive and will not consciously use one's depression as a shitpost material.
English is hard.
(that and I don't have much to say regarding momi's disapproval of using professional therapist)
so it'd be better to just... lock? It's an announcement, after all. I don't see much of progression other than stating what has been stated.
One thing, anyway, that I'm open to listening if in any case someone just needs a pair of ears for it. I'd be glad that as a community we agree that we're ive and will not consciously use one's depression as a shitpost material.
English is hard.
Shohei Ohtani
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Sorry to hear about that (ok wf i sound like customer service) but then that whoever isnt a professional. That or the practice there isnt as good as I think it is, being a first world country and stuff.Momi wrote: 6q1o3k
read opinions about them lolCDFA wrote: 3i3k20
1) Speak with a trained professional.
i have had horrible, nearly traumatizing experiences because my parents took me to whoever
Being a counselor/psychologist/psychiatrist isnt just something that people take up because it pays good, but rather, it pays when you help people with their stuff. I hope the next time you visit one you won't encounter the same uneasiness you probably felt before.
Also, trained professionals arent supposed to tell you what to do, but rather guide you to the steps on being okay. Anything else is a waste of time. And to everyone, being in the field of Psychology or not, lets be mindful of what we say or do, and be a helping hand to others who needs them.
Ephemeral wrote: 6y2w72
(serious thread)
there's been a frankly obscene level of self-depreciating or negative posts cropping up lately and i'm too old to fully fathom whether this is just some fad to be edgy and pretend to be hurting or whether people are legitimately hurting and just taking the opportunity to vent it in here (or maybe a bit of both)
while i don't wanna stifle stuff here, the level of "i'm gonna kill myself" and "my life is miserable and everything sucks" in this forum lately has exceeded any level that can be considered as "ironically amusing" by any standards, and i'm actually more than a little concerned about a few of you at this point
can we all universally agree to maybe tone back the self-dep and negging a little bit? being stupid and endearingly dumb is perfectly fine and well within the scope of OT but holy shit dudes, there's like five threads on the frontpage at the moment that are some variant of "i wanna die"
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means stupid not to be stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way.
E m i
WAtCanadian Baka wrote: 38c3
Ephemeral wrote: 6y2w72
(serious thread)
there's been a frankly obscene level of self-depreciating or negative posts cropping up lately and i'm too old to fully fathom whether this is just some fad to be edgy and pretend to be hurting or whether people are legitimately hurting and just taking the opportunity to vent it in here (or maybe a bit of both)
while i don't wanna stifle stuff here, the level of "i'm gonna kill myself" and "my life is miserable and everything sucks" in this forum lately has exceeded any level that can be considered as "ironically amusing" by any standards, and i'm actually more than a little concerned about a few of you at this point
can we all universally agree to maybe tone back the self-dep and negging a little bit? being stupid and endearingly dumb is perfectly fine and well within the scope of OT but holy shit dudes, there's like five threads on the frontpage at the moment that are some variant of "i wanna die"
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means stupid not to be stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way.
ok let me break this down via subsititutionMomi wrote: 6q1o3k
WAt
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be Y
Let x = stupid
Let y = stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way
y is a little confusing so let's continue,
to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Let w = stupid
Let Z = stupid
Let v = stupid but still stupid
We get,
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Perhaps punctuation will help
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X; not to be W in a Z way, but W in a V way
Because this explanation helpsabraker wrote: 6w3t1z
ok let me break this down via subsititutionMomi wrote: 6q1o3k
WAt
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be Y
Let x = stupid
Let y = stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way
y is a little confusing so let's continue,
to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Let w = stupid
Let Z = stupid
Let v = stupid but still stupid
We get,
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Perhaps punctuation will help
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X; not to be W in a Z way, but W in a V way
So thats mean that stupid is not stupid but actually its still stupid in a sense of stupidity and not the other stupid?abraker wrote: 6w3t1z
ok let me break this down via subsititutionMomi wrote: 6q1o3k
WAt
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be Y
Let x = stupid
Let y = stupid in a stupid way but stupid in a not stupid but still stupid way
y is a little confusing so let's continue,
to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Let w = stupid
Let Z = stupid
Let v = stupid but still stupid
We get,
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X not to be W in a Z way but W in a V way
Perhaps punctuation will help
It’s important to note when he says it’s ok to be stupid he means X; not to be W in a Z way, but W in a V way
You obviously weren't here during lockthread's reignigorsprite wrote: 1k5b4j
upStefan wrote: 714o
add me as offtopic , that should work
Haha, wait, wait, if this is serious (I'm sorry I still can't take this as serious) it has to be the lowest point this forum has reached in the entirety of its existence, but if it's not then Phem is just a mongrel, so no matter which way I look at it here, it's sad this thread exists.Ephemeral wrote: 6y2w72
(serious thread)
there's been a frankly obscene level of self-depreciating or negative posts cropping up lately and i'm too old to fully fathom whether this is just some fad to be edgy and pretend to be hurting or whether people are legitimately hurting and just taking the opportunity to vent it in here (or maybe a bit of both)
while i don't wanna stifle stuff here, the level of "i'm gonna kill myself" and "my life is miserable and everything sucks" in this forum lately has exceeded any level that can be considered as "ironically amusing" by any standards, and i'm actually more than a little concerned about a few of you at this point
can we all universally agree to maybe tone back the self-dep and negging a little bit? being stupid and endearingly dumb is perfectly fine and well within the scope of OT but holy shit dudes, there's like five threads on the frontpage at the moment that are some variant of "i wanna die"
Just, holy shit.
Shohei Ohtani
E m i
ohigorsprite wrote: 1k5b4j
Result
nice
OT: seems like things are a bit better now. i guess i could've represented my depression a bit better by actually making a thread about it on GD, though i do making one post fairly similar to it anyways, lemme see...
*15 minutes later*
There, t/191448&start=535. I didnt really go too deep on my depression but more on another similar troublesome thing i deal with. I don't know if i should edit it since it isn't quite as accurate as it could be.
I did shit on OT and FG forums hoping to fit in, even with my depressing shit and joking about my pointless existence. It was pretty pointless in itself, and it seems like some people noticed.
I'm still somewhat active in my self-deprecating comments, but they never seem to get me to change anything.
Welp.
Momi wrote: 6q1o3k
CDFA wrote: 3i3k20
1) Speak with a trained professional.
read opinions about them lol
i have had horrible, nearly traumatizing experiences because my parents took me to whoever
Same. Some are good though. It's more about who you're compatible with, but there are some out there that can be traumatizing (or just assholes) for sure.